“Ditz”, was proudly carried as his moniker.
A tale of life, worthy of telling,
of a troubled, humble, man.
Haunted by demons, of not quite his own devise.
Navigating a 65-year, eventful twentieth century life,
Beginning with a family devastating pandemic.
Falling ill as an infant to this third wave of
Deadly influenza but surviving.
Yet, to this same swiftly moving virus of black death,
Losing a cherished older sister of five years of age,
And a young father and doting grandmother,
All in a short span of two weeks,
one tragic January after the
Armistice of our first World War.
A closely knit family of three among 5,000
Lost souls to the flu in the streets of Baltimore.
A widow is left grieving for her
Departed daughter and husband of
Twelve years, with two remaining sons.
A talented illustrator, whose talent would go unfulfilled.
But while serving his nation in occupied Germany,
A WWII-acquired machinist trade would provide
Sufficient skill for a modest wage to support
a middle-class lifestyle for his family of four,
Including joyous Christmas mornings of gifts galore.
He, a man without a high-school education,
Yet followed by two Ivy League college bound sons.
With great pride, he wondered and pondered:
Where did this genetically derived intellect come from?
Later, the loss of a closely bonded brother,
and loving devoted wife, both in their mid-life,
drove him to further despair and desolation.
Now the fire water coursed through his veins,
Numbing the senses of all
Past and present external strife.
Years pass slowly for the lonely old widower.
Flashbacks of massive mounds of
Nazi death camp corpses,
With their decomposing flesh,
Horrify his already disturbed soul.
Humanity and fate had failed him.
Not even a newly arrived grandchild
Could change his outlook on life.
A self inflicted ending was contemplated.
A darkie awaits in the dark of night,
Watching in the alleyway for an easy mark.
From a corner liquor joint,
A walking, wobbling senior approaches.
The mugger strikes and aims for the moon-lit wristwatch.
The tumbling struggle ends quickly,
As the bourbon filled veteran arises in defensive victory,
His time piece dangling from his bruised arm.
Ditz would finally succumb to the
slings and arrows of outrageous fortune.
His ashes were laid to rest with the
remains of his German-rooted, red-headed love,
thirteen years after her passing.
A beautiful, fifteen foot, black marble, family obelisk
closely casts its dark shadow over their final resting place.
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Note: The second husband of Ditz's grandmother also expired due to the flu pandemic of 1918-1919.
Thus a total of four family members were tragically lost during the same two-week period.
References: Baltimore Sun Newspaper, January 24, 1919 and February 9, 1919
Baltimore American Newspaper, February 9, 1919
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D W Orr
Environmentalist, Weimaraner/Dachshund Companion, Photographer, and Poet-Provocateur
Harford County, Maryland,
Here, where it all began, 254 years ago, in the USA
January 06, 2023
Ditz with his eldest son and grandchild (Colorized/Enhanced by D. W. Orr Photography)
Ditz and the Mrs. in happier times (Colorized/Enhanced by D. W. Orr Photography)
Ditz's Wife of 28 Years (Colorized/Enhanced by D. W. Orr Photography)
"Widow is left grieving for her departed daughter and husband"
(Colorized/Enhanced by D. W. Orr Photography)
1903 German Men's Choir of Baltimore - Seated 2nd from the left, in the front row, is Ditz's Great Grandfather. Standing second from the left in the second row, is Ditz's father, who died in the 1919 flu pandemic along with his daughter and mother.
Final Resting Place of Ditz, his wife, and three of the four 1919 pandemic flu victims
The Orr Family of Baltimore - "German Blood with Irish Soul",
~ D. W. Orr ~